There's a lot we can learn from the Amish
Lorna Dueck – From Friday's Globe and Mail 3/11/2006
One
month after the sharpest intrusion of media into the world of faith,
Amish leaders in Pennsylvania are quietly working to determine how best
to release news on the condition of five surviving girls in the Amish
schoolhouse massacre. I expect we'll hear soon. The service-minded but
reclusive Amish are well aware of the concern and support of an outside
world, and that their lives gave a perspective that has ushered in an
encounter with the supernatural.
First, that encounter was with evil. The human condition was reduced to
its absolute worst when a known outsider, the local milk-truck driver,
32-year-old Charles Roberts, stormed a one-room Amish school, intent on
murder. In less than 40 terrorizing minutes, he left five innocent
families, including his own, forever bereaved, and five other girls
struggling for life.
As I walked the West Nickel Mines community last week and interacted
with those who knew the Amish, I could picture just how out of place it
must have been to see more than 60 news trucks and their crews on the
gentle hill overlooking the schoolhouse.
In the hours that followed, the Amish made room for the press because
they felt they had an obligation to help the world understand the
madness of the crime, and they knew the world was grieving with them,
said their spokesman Herman Bontrager.
Forgiveness was the other aspect of the supernatural that unfolded that
day. By night's end, Amish stood in the kitchen of the murderer's
family, their arms around his sobbing father and said, "We will forgive
Charlie."
"It's what you have to do if you follow Christ literally," said Mr.
Bontrager. "It was nothing staged, nor was it easy. They say this is
painful, but here we are, we are human beings together."
The story was one of those moments that pointed to the moral nature of
media: What do the powers that hold information do when a spiritual
concept that has ramifications for the lives of every reader, viewer
and listener is rolling across reality?
Mr. Bontrager said he began to realize reporters were distracted from
the crime, and started talking about forgiveness. "They saw this act as
something that is relevant and important in their community and
wondered, how could we regain that? It dawned on me, this is a gift to
the whole world."
"Maybe there's something to learn about how nations might treat other nations," he said.
"What would have happened, if after 9/11, the U.S. leadership had gone
to Islamic leaders and said we are sorry this happened but we forgive
those who did it, let's talk. I know lots of people would shrug that
off and say it's not realistic in the world of geopolitics, but we
don't know because we have never tried."
Even as an admirer of peace, I find that concept almost too challenging
but, perhaps, geopolitics were involved in the forgiveness that flowed
after the schoolhouse murders.
Benuel Fisher, an Amish man close to the tragedy, wrote to his local
newspaper to comment that he was puzzled their Amish forgiveness was
being called "foreign." He reminded his audience that the state of
Pennsylvania was founded to protect those seeking freedom from the
violent state church in Europe, and that the Amish who first settled
there were bringing with them forgiveness for a state that killed their
fathers, mothers and children through hangings, drownings and
beheadings.
The book of those stories, Martyr's Mirror, was published just a few
miles from where the five Amish schoolgirls, including two sisters,
were killed, and is found in many Amish homes, just as computers are
found in ours. It documents forgiven crimes hundreds of years old, but
Mr. Fisher asked: "How is this forgiveness lost, or how has it faded
out . . . it cannot be bought or borrowed. It needs to be practised and
nurtured daily."
Perhaps the Amish can do that better than most because they guardedly
control what input they'll work on. Others of us are flooded with
information that is devoid of meaning, that has no lasting value for
our lives, and we can only hope that when we're faced with a crisis,
we'll have the inner skills to survive it.
Last week, the Amish families whose children were in the schoolhouse
sat with the killer's family and received 12 large bins of mail from
media consumers, mail that said again and again the public cares about
forgiveness. For our own good, let's not wait for a crime so tragic and
a people so unique as the Amish to explore it in media again.
Lorna
Lorna Dueck hosts Listen Up TV, seen Sundays on Global TV, Saturdays on CTS, Salt and Light TV and Christian Channel.
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