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Faith that Forgives: Amish Anguish   

Today on Listen Up, we take you to Pennsylvania and the Amish schoolhouse tragedy to examine faith that forgives.

When an armed gunman seized and slaughtered young Amish schoolgirls in their one-room schoolhouse in Nickel Mines, Pennsylvania before turning the gun on himself he did more than commit an unspeakable crime. His heinous final acts set in motion a series of events that would turn the eyes of the world to the pretty, pastoral hamlet, and leave them in awe at what they beheld there.

For in the depths of their anguish, the Amish community to which the girls belonged chose to respond to their profound loss not with bitterness and hatred, but with acts and expressions of forgiveness.

And in the days and weeks that followed the tragedy, the world was left to ponder the ramifications of their choice.

FAMILY RESOURCE COUNSELLING CENTER
HERMAN BONTRAGER & THE NICKEL MINES ACCOUNTABILITY COMMITTEE
MENNONITE DISASTER SERVICE
HOW TO HELP THE FAMILIES of NICKEL MINES, PA
THE AMISH MESSAGE OF FORGIVENESS
FORGIVENESS QUOTES & BOOKS
LORNA’S WRAP
STRUGGLING WITH FORGIVENESS or HOW TO FORGIVE? Write to us at Listenup@listenuptv.com


FAMILY RESOURCE COUNSELLING CENTER
www.fracc.org

Brad Aldrich is the Executive Director of the Family Resource Counselling Center in Gap, Pennsylvania. They have set up a “Community Disaster Counselling Fund “to give needed counselling to the victims, families, and first responders involved with this tragedy.

“FRCC is striving to become the premier Christian counseling and education center in Lancaster and Chester counties in Pennsylvania, USA. We are doing this by providing professional and quality Christian outpatient counseling and offering interactive resources to the community in the form of a public library (full of Christian and mental health resources), workshops and satellite offices.”

HERMAN BONTRAGER

Herman Bontrager grew up in a Beachy Amish home in Indiana. He received his M.A. in Sociology from the University of Florida. As secretary of the National Committee for Amish Religious Freedom he has worked with Amish on a variety of religious liberty and other legal matters affecting the Amish. He served 14 years with Mennonite Central Committee as Director of Latin America programs and the International Peace Office. Since 1990 he is CEO of Goodville Mutual Casualty Company in New Holland, Pennsylvania. Herman was also appointed as the spokesman for the Amish community during the tragedy and is the head of the Nickel Mines Accountability Committee that is receiving contributions for the community and applying them to the needs that resulted from the shootings.

The statement that follows is released by the Nickel Mines Accountability Committee on behalf of the people of Nickel Mines and the surrounding communities that were affected by the shooting at the Nickel Mines Amish School. The Amish Leadership is especially interested that this statement be published in its entirety.

Statement of thanks to the public and plans for use of contributions

Nickel Mines, Pennsylvania – On October 2 seven Amish families in our community experienced the unimaginable -- ten of their young daughters were shot, five fatally, by a gunman who invaded the Amish school where their children attended. The whole community, Amish and others, were horrified and shocked that such evil could be done to the most innocent members of our peaceful community.

Messages of condolence and care, financial contributions, and offers of all kinds of assistance began to pour into the community almost immediately from the local community and from around the world. We, the people of the Nickel Mines community, are humbled and deeply thankful for this outpouring of love. Each act of kindness, the prayers and every gift, small or large, comfort us and assure us that our spirits will heal even though the painful loss will always be with us. Thank you for your generous kindness and for walking with us in this “valley of death”. We wish we could thank each of you personally.

In those first hours and days we experienced personally the love and care of our neighbours and the public and private service providers as they responded tirelessly and selflessly. Specifically, we acknowledge and thank the following: volunteer fire companies, especially the Bart Township fire company; fire police; Lancaster County Sheriff’s Department; Pennsylvania State Police and local law enforcement people; ambulance and emergency response teams; hospitals and all the related medical providers; coroners; churches; community volunteer groups; transportation providers; and the Mennonite Central Committee, Mennonite Disaster Service, the Anabaptist Foundation and the numerous banks and businesses that are collecting funds. To all those we failed to mention, thank you, and apologies for not naming you.

We thank people from the news media who sensitively reported our tragedy to the world and in many cases wrote thoughtful commentary that helped the world grapple with values that are dear to us -- forgiveness, non-violence, mutual caring, simplicity and life in a community of faith. Above all, thank you for the acts of kindness you showed us even while you were doing your reporting work.

The Roberts family is also suffering. Please join us in showering care on them, praying for them and in assisting them with financial needs that they face.

We have organized the Nickel Mines Accountability Committee to receive contributions and apply them to the needs that resulted from the shootings: medical and counselling services, transportation for victims, transportation and extra living expenses for family members attending to the victims, rehabilitation, long-term disability care, modifications to homes or schools if needed to make facilities handicap accessible, and any other expenses resulting from the event. If adequate funds are received contributions may be made to charity funds of health service providers and to volunteer public service entities that responded to this event without charging for their services. Funds received in excess of what is needed to respond to the Nickel Mines Amish School tragedy will be contributed, as the committee deems appropriate, to needs arising from other tragic events within or outside the Amish community.

Thank you and God bless you.


MENNONITE DISASTER SERVICE
www.mds.mennonite.net

Kevin King is the Executive Director of the Mennonite Disaster service in Akron, Pennsylvania.

MCC and MDS collect over $700,000 for Amish by Tim Shenk

AKRON, Pa. -- Mennonite Central Committee (MCC) and Mennonite Disaster Service (MDS) have collected over $700,000 U.S. , or $800,000 Cdn., for the community affected by the Oct. 2 shootings at an Amish school in Nickel Mines.

MCC and MDS are transferring 100 percent of these contributions to a Nickel Mines Accountability Committee comprised of seven Amish community members and two non-Amish community members. The committee will apply the funds to needs that result from the shootings, including medical and counselling services, extra living expenses for affected families and long-term disability care.

MCC and MDS agreed to accept contributions for the Nickel Mines Accountability Committee in consultation with Amish community leaders and will continue to do so until Oct. 27. These contributions should be designated for the "Amish School Recovery Fund."

In an Oct. 10 statement, the Nickel Mines Accountability Committee thanked the many people who have contributed in the wake of the shootings.

"We, the people of the Nickel Mines community, are humbled and deeply thankful for this outpouring of love," the committee stated. "Each act of kindness, the prayers and every gift, small or large, comfort us and assure as that our spirits will heal even though the painful loss will always be with us."

Tim Shenk is a writer for MCC communications.


"The Amish Message of Forgiveness"

BY JAMES P. PINKERTON
Religion – Miami Herald
www.newsday.com

It's a paradox of our time that the Amish, arguably the least technological people in America, have nevertheless proven to be extraordinarily effective at communicating what they believe. In a time of proliferating techno-clutter, they got their message across the old-fashioned way: through the blood sacrifice of martyrs.
Of course, there's no reason to think the Amish -- who lost five of their own in an Oct. 2 school shooting in Pennsylvania -- had any plan for teaching us a lesson in Christian forgiveness. But sacrifice and martyrdom are deeply woven into the history of Christianity, and what the Amish offered all of us, whether or not we are Christians, was an enduring example of how to behave admirably in an hour of sorrow.
To use the modern language of cybertech that the Amish so resolutely reject, the message of forgiveness has gone ''viral'' across the culture.
The murder of five girls, and the wounding of five more, ended with the killer, Charles Roberts, shooting himself as police closed in. And because no legal issue remains to be wrangled, we can move on to the next phase: reconciliation.
That's where the Amish shone. According to The Associated Press, the family of Marian Fisher invited the Roberts family to join them in grief and remembrance. And a member of the Roberts family attended Marian's funeral.
Where did the Fisher family get such inspiration? One can only think of the Book of Matthew, of the Sermon on the Mount, when Jesus said, ''Blessed are they who mourn, for they shall be comforted.'' Or to Romans 12:21: ''Be not overcome of evil, but overcome evil with good.'' One witness to this intensely Christian moment was the Rev. Robert Schenck, who recalled for CNN, 'As we were standing next to the body of this 13-year-old girl, the grandfather was tutoring the young boys, he was making a point, just saying to the family, `We must not think evil of this man.' It was one of the most touching things I have seen in 25 years of Christian ministry.''
The widow of the killer, Marie Roberts, issued a statement declaring that she and her family were ''overwhelmed by the forgiveness, grace and mercy.'' She added to the Amish: ''Your love for our family has helped to provide the healing we so desperately need.'' Once again, the Amish didn't ask for this to happen to them.
One is reminded of the scene in the first Lord of the Rings movie, when Frodo laments his difficult fate: ''I wish none of this had happened.'' To which the wise old Gandalf answers, ''So do all who live to see such times. But that is not for them to decide. All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given to us.'' Then Gandalf reminds his young comrade, ''There are other forces at work in this world, Frodo, besides the will of evil.'' Of course, in the mind of Rings author J.R.R. Tolkien, himself a Christian, one of those ''other forces'' was God.
Tolkien struggled to find a way to communicate his Christian message, and he found it through allegorical fantasy. Others have found their own way -- or, in the tragic case of the Amish, fate found them, and their little girls.
It is said that a wealth of information leads to a poverty of attention, and that's normally the case if the programming is just one more forgettable and interchangeable show. Yet, amid the yammering of the proverbial 500 TV channels -- now 500 million YouTube.com channels, as well -- the powerful Amish message, inflected by tragedy, was heard by millions of Americans, loud and clear.
Thus the paradox: A people who don't own a single camera or microphone or computer found a way to make a valuable point. They led all of us, gently, by the quiet power of tragic example.

James P. Pinkerton is a columnist for Newsday.

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LORNA’S WRAP

These Amish homes hold stories of how forgiveness is lived out that we’ll never hear. But what we have learned in this community is these are people whose relationship with God is so real, they choose to forgive in the face of unthinkable evil. What I learn from this, is the mystery of God is available to all of us, that God is waiting to be invited into the events of our lives. What might change in our responses if we did that? We’ll explore more of that next week in part two of this Amish story; Forgiveness is a Choice. There’s more on my thoughts on that at my blog at listenuptv.com and on this story. You can also download this show on pod cast, or watch us online at listenuptv.com. Drop us a note, we will pass your mail on to those involved in this story. Thanks for joining us, I’m Lorna Dueck,

HOW TO HELP THE FAMILIES of NICKEL MINES, PA

Donations can be made to:

The Anabaptist Foundation Nickel Mines School Victims Fund

c/o HomeTowne Heritage Bank,

Box 337, Strasburg, Pa. 17579.

For information, go to www.nationalpenn.com or www.afweb.org.

Donations to the Nickel Mines Children's Fund and the Roberts Family Fund can be sent to Coatesville Savings Bank, 1082 Georgetown Rd., Paradise, Pa. 17562. For information, go to www.coatesvillesavings.com.

Donations can be sent to the Mennonite Disaster Service, 1018 Main St., Akron, Pa. 17501. Put "Amish School Recovery Fund" in the memo line. For information, go to www.mds.mennonite.net.

Cards to the victims' families may be sent to Nickel Mines Children in care of the Bart Township Fire Company, Box 72, Bart, Pa. 17503.

FORGIVENESS QUOTES & BOOKS

Martin Luther King
Forgiveness is not an occasional act. It is a permanent attitude.

Mahatma Gandhi
If we practice an eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth, soon the whole world will be blind and toothless.

Catherine Ponder
When you hold resentment toward another, you are bound to that person or condition by an emotional link that is stronger than steel. Forgiveness is the only way to dissolve that link and get free.

Jean Paul Richter
Humanity is never so beautiful as when praying for forgiveness, or else forgiving another.

Alexander Pope
To err is human; to forgive, divine.

Mark Twain

Forgiveness is the fragrance that the violet sheds on the heal that has crushed it.

Lewis B. Smedes

You will know that forgiveness has begun when you recall those who hurt you and feel the power to wish them well.

Randall Worley

Forgiveness is not an emotion, it's a decision.

BOOKS:

Revolutionary Forgiveness” By Eric E. Wright

http://www.countrywindow.ca
/book-forgive.html

A Grace Disguised: How the soul grows through loss” by Jerry Sittser

(The Associate professor of Religion at Whitworth College in Spokane, Washington.) Sittser’s wife, daughter and mother were killed in a tragic car accident caused by a drunk driver. Sittser calls his loss catastrophic.

"The Art of Forgiveness: When you need to forgive and don't know how" By Lewis Smedes
 http://www.amazon.com/Art-Forgiving
-Lewis-B-Smedes/dp/034541344X


"What's so Amazing about Grace"  By Philip Yancey

 
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